Boyment!!

Arrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! I hate girls! Shoot-I know I am one, but goodness I'll never understand females!! My girlies-I love em to bits, but goodness, do they work me!!? I mean one simple thing said and everything blows up! I mean, can we get things into perspective here please???

Ok, basically at work, and normally everyday there's email club-where we send messages to each other throughout the day. So one of my friends emails about a comedy affair that's happening next month, that features Kojo. Another friend mentions that she's not feeling him anymore. So i reply saying how come everyone's anti-Kojo....now when I say everyone, I was clearly being ambiguous, over exaggerating, and most importantly joking! Now at the time I send this email, my other friend's email delivers to me, where she mentions she's not feeling Kojo either.....then in a sec she then sends a fiery email about how she's being jumped on because she made a comment about someone in the public eye blah blah. So I'm like, ok, so everyone's getting excited, let's forget it an move on.....ha-no such luck-the same individual sends another fiery email going on about how she doesn't care who's friend or boyfriend Kojo is, she has her opinion...yada yada.....so clearly it's getting outta hand right? So I then send an email stating that clearly what I said was taken out of context, it wasn't meant to cause an argument or any bad feelings and whatever...but that if everyone (again ambiguous and exaggerated) wants to get excited because I asked a simple question then that was up to them.

So the fiery emailer's sister from another mother, then feels the need to email me to say that no one's getting 'excited' about 'simple' things, and that i need to be careful about what I say, as it can come across as derogatory......ERM.....CAN WE ALL TAKE A RAIN CHECK HERE?!?! Now please bear in mind that I've known most of these girls since I was 11-I'm now 24, and after all these years i have to be careful about what I say? I've been talking this way from the jump, and now suddenly there's a problem? Suddenly whatever I say gets taken wrong...so I've gotta run a conversation in my head, analyse it, see how it'll be taken before I say it...are you serious?? I gotta be walking on egg shells.....around these people who I've known for 13 years?!?! REALLY???

I emailed her back basically saying i say excited all the time, and it's never been a problem before-but of course if no one's excited then there's no problem right?? I mean come on, gimme a break will ya?!?! Dynamics have changed so much over time with the girls, but it's clear to me that's it's at breaking point. I mean if we're all too scared to say shit to each other, and we're always painting a pretty picture before we say shit, clearly there's something wrong right???

I'm still so pissed beyond believe.....it's at the point now where it's like, for a quiet life, I'll say nothing, and I'll chill with people on the same wave length as me-who's not overly hyped, can hear the truth when it's needed to be heard, and who doesn't get EXCITED for foolishness!!!!

I'm out.......