It's almost 9 in the morning...and I'm in a bad mood! Soldier called me a little while ago and told me that he's got time off from work, I think next week, and that he was going to his Grandad's for a week. I'm soooo annoyed! Now before you get the wrong idea, the reason why I'm annoyed is not cos he's going to his Grandad's, not cos I'm not invited (old school folk) BUT because just yesterday the big head bwoy said that we would be going to Germany, cos he wasn't meant to be working today or tomorrow, but his work people scheduled him in, and we had plans on Monday that are no more.
I've never really thought of holidaying to Germany, but it's where he's lived for 5 years and loves it, so I'm thinking what the heck? More importantly it'll mean we get to spend time together away from the usual surroundings....so as I start looking forward to it, I discover we're not going....BUT he doesn't say this. He just changes the plan....no mention of us going anywhere anymore....it's almost like it was never mentioned! I'm annoyed not cos he's going to visit his Gramps.....cos I love my grandparents to death...and clearly there's no contest between them and going away...but I kinda feel like...I dunno....now I've written this much, I don't even know if I have the right to be pissed.....what do you reckon?
In fact, I know why I'm mad...because he can never make a plan with me, and then actually follow through with it! It's soooo annoying! It's like he says the shit I wanna hear, but then decides he's doing something else...which fair enough isn't always his fault....BUT surely something has to give sometimes......??
Ok, NOW what do you reckon....?
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I don't blame you for being pissed off. I absolutely hate for someone to make plans with me then make different plans (in effect cancelling the original plans) without even a discussion...and then talk to you like it's all nothing - crazy.
I knoooooooooow you are frustrated, but talk to dude and tell him exactly what he did.
You really wanna know what I think? Cuz I'll tell you...
Something doesn't sound right about the situation. You have every right to be upset.
You have every right to be upset. He had nothing to say about the previous plans. Call him out on it.
aaaah europe.
must be nice 2 be able to go 2 another cool country with relative ease.
i mean, canada is less than an hr. from my house....
but still
who really takes a vacation in canada?
well, maybe in toronto.
-1-
You have reason to be mad. Trust me, you do. But, give this some time and just like all other things - this too shall pass.
-DTW
btw, love the accent - lol.
You have every right to be pissed!!
A lil' common courtesy goes a long way...
The same way he told you he was going to his grand dad's for a week is the same way he could have simply told you he needed to reschedule the plans he made with you.
It's a simple as that...
I reckon he needs his ass beat. But that's my Scorpio talking. LOL
He's not right for that. You need to call him on it.
I reckon he is being selfish...make yourself busy and then see what happens
how the hell did i miss this 1?!?!
sheesh.
BOYS ARE STUPID!!! throw things @ their heads!!!!!!
just kidding!!!
...
no i'm not.
i think big head bwoy has gotten too comfortable with bailing on the plans you guys make, so now he just doesn't really care. not about you, but about things u care about. he needs a spanking!
jk.
but tell him how u feel, cuz maybe he doesn't know what he's doing...ya know?
-kare bear.
i really dont know how i missed this post. i'm sorry milly!
-kb
NO ONE CLICK ON THE LINK FOR THAT LAST COMMENT!!!
IT'S A VIRUS!
-KB
I would be pissed too... and I reckon the same thing as monie!
Id be mad as hell too...
But....
Like I ALWAYS say to my bestest...
He will ONLY do what YOU allow.
Plans CONSTANTLY changing without your knowledge??
Suspect.
Think about it babes.
You know what...?
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