Friday, 3 August 2007

The New Addition...And Some Ranting...

Ok...so I know I've been AWOL for a few days...there are numerous reasons for this, which include the viewing of flats, much frustation and stress at work, and having nothing to say...

Today is all change! I became an aunty for the 3rd time today! My nephew (my brother's son) Khalai was born at 4.05pm today!! Sooooo excited! I went to see him...he looks like a lil china doll. He weighed 6lbs 6oz and is simply gooorgeous! Both baby and mum are doing fine. They should be coming out of hospital tomorrow morning!

My brother (who's now a daddy) went to JA last week-he was actually meant to go for three weeks, but he only ended up staying for a week-he came back yesterday (good thing too)...we were talking about Jamaica, and I find out that he stayed in the hotel that me and my girlies stayed in last year...and there's a very big chance that he met Mr Man...unknowingly of course...but very, very possible...

On to other news, I got the remainder of my outfit for Sunday today. I went for denim shorts instead, and some gold pumps. When I have a minute i'll post em. I also got me a new pair of trainers. I love em! Those were £35, and then they had a white pair, which I also want for £25...I was tempted to get them both....but I really couldn't justify spending £60 on trainers in one month...so that's on my wish list...hopefully to purchase next month!

Saw a flat today....it was ok...not quite what I'm after, but it has potential...with a few changes here and there it may be the one. I've got a viewing for a brand new studio in the morning, and I have a feeling this is more what I'm after. It's more expensive than the one I saw today, but I'm guessing it's more up my street-but I'll see tomorrow!

Now all the nice news outta the way...I must now vent my anger and frustration, and the increased desire to move out of this house!!!!Ok, so I've been out all day. I come home with my brother from the hospital, and I'm in my room, putting away my stuff. My lil brother says to me 'S found the key for your CD box and took out your CD' I instantly get mad.

Sidenote: I HATE HATE HATE when people touch my stuff without asking...WORSE if it's my CD's!!! Everyone knows what I'm like when it comes to my possessions, and it's a general unsaid rule to never touch such items without permission, as I am known to cuss and rant...and possibly cause one some damage.

Anyways, I look at my sister S...and she says (referring to my lil brother) 'you muthafucker'...Please also note, that this was said outside of the bathroom, which was occupied by my mother at this point. So she walks past me heading to her room to get the CD...as she passes me, I punch her in her back, and then she tries to hit me back...now this girl is strong-she's like 13, and she play fights with my 21 year old brother (which I don't even do)...so before she can hit me back I push her...her rooms a tip, she trips over something and then falls on the floor. I'm seeing red now so I'm like 'where's my cd' she's like I don't have it-I put it back' blah blah...I tell her I want the key. I walk out of her room, and I'm ranting to anyone that's listening...then her room door opens and I hear metal hitting the floor. My brother goes out, and sees the CD that the stupid girl took and the key. I'm even more mad now cos I know say that you didn't find the CD in the passage...and you're tryna fling it to me like I'm some dog...so her room doors shut, and I kick it-knowing that she's behind it...and I'm still making noise and ting. My brother goes home, and my mum emerges from the bathroom. I tell her, she needs to deal with her daughter...cos I WILL hurt her!! My mum goes over to my sister's door, and she's like who broke the door.....Hear what this feisty lickle raas pickney says...'the little bitch did it'....now hold on one raas minute...who the FUCK are you calling 'a little bitch' she could NEVER be referring to me!!! So I'm making my noise, but I'm not coming out my room, cos I know I'll do her something! Now I'm thinking my mum's gonna do or say something regarding the fact that 1)she's calling me a bitch and 2) that she swore in front of her face....erm...yeah, still waiting for my mum to say something! And THAT'S the reason why this chick has no damn manners or respect for anyone or their property. I don't even swear in front of my mum, and I'm a grown ass woman....I was like....MAN I can't WAIT to be outta here!! Fuck this shit man!!!!

*Sigh* so after all that, went to the shop, got me some chocolate, and some drink, and I'm now watching Ace Ventura...and about to check out some of my favourite blogs!!

I'll be back....

UPDATE@2:15am
Ok, so it's been a good few hours since my last post. It's after 2am...I can't sleep, and I hate blogger cos it's not letting me leave comments on other peoples blogs....hmm...maybe it's not Blogger-and just crappy AOL!!

I decided to start my laundry. I go to the machine, and there's a load in there that's finished. They belong to my sister S. So I'm unloading, and I come across my black Nike shorts. Again, I'm mad...

Let's back track to earlier today. It was surprisingly hot today, and I decided I wouldn't wear my joggers, cos it's simply too hot. I'm looking for my black shorts...and they are no where to be found. I look in my wardrobe endless amount of times. I see my navy blue pair, but they weren't the ones I wanted to wear. I knew -that I had them both in my wardrobe, cos I remember ironing them both. I knew they wouldn't be there, but I looked in my 'to be ironed' pile...I haven't worn them for a little while-cos let's be real, there's been noooo sun!

Admitting defeat, I decide to wear the navy blue ones. I ask everyone in my house what t-shirt I should wear...I even say, I can't find my black shorts....

So you know I'm hella pissed now that I see this chick has not only worn my shorts without permission, but that she watched me look high and low for the ruddy shorts when the WHOLE time it was in her laundry basket! She thinks she's so slick! I know she had intended on washing them, and then put them in with the rest of my clothes thinking I wouldn't notice!

I asked her about it (she was half asleep mind you) and she's saying that she never wore them, that she doesn't know how it ended up with her clothes (though I do my own laundry seperate from everyone elses)...I gave her a swift warning: 'Don't make me find ANYTHING more of my tings in your possession'....I seriously need to be out of this house!! I'm at my wits end man! I can't be dealing with this!

3 comments:

Monie said...

LOL sounds like fights my sister and I used to have. She was ALWAYS in my shit and she didn't take care of it. So when I'd get it back, shirts would have holes and stains...it was the worst! Finally, my mother told her she'd get her ass kicked if she kept messing with my stuff. To this day, I do not let my sister borrow ANYTHING of mine. It shouldn't be like that but...it is what it is. I hope you're better today. Congrats on the baby, Auntie!!!

Tom_Gurl said...

I swear, this girl gets me so mad I could spit venom!! Glad to know I'm not the only one with a sister like mine! I'm cool today though...infact after that rant, I was pretty much cool!! Thanks for the congrats lil lady! :)

Jazzy said...

I call I could do is exhale and sigh right along with you. This brings back sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo many memories. I have three younger sisters and my mom raised three of my cousins (two were girls), so there was ALWAYS someone stealing my stuff.

The worse offender was my sister N. Not only would she wear my shoes/sneakers AND clothes (while I was at work), but she'd still be on the stoop rockin my shyt when I came home! And then, after I'd beat her up in front of her friends, she would have the NERVE to go crying to my mother and MY MOTHER WOULD SIDE WITH HER!!!

I'm getting mad just typing this, so I REALLY feel your pain. Keep looking for that place. Something will turn up soon!

PS: Congrats on being an Auntie for the third time!