Friday Randoms

Ok-so I’m sitting at my desk listening to the 3 other females talking about one of the ladies defecation. Now I know we all gotta shit BUT does everyone need to know it’s size, and consistency? I dunno about you, but to me that’s not light conversation! The continuation of this conversation is a sure-fire way to make me bring up the good ole Nando’s I ate for lunch! And I would not be impressed considering that ish was soo good and it cost me £5.50! Ain’t got no money to waste!!!!

I’ve been in a bit of a weird mood all day! Last night, Soldier went back to his Army base to see his doctor to get jabs in anticipation for his holiday to JA. He called me this morning at like 2.30am, cos he couldn’t sleep! And even though I was deep in my sleep-I still woke my ass up to talk to him for an hour!!! He’s excited now aint he? He’s going to see his parents who he hasn’t seen for 7 years! Bless him! I’m happy for him, but I don’t want him to go! I know it’s only 3 weeks, and I’m willing that time to go by real quick…but that’s purely for my own selfish reasons!!

I’ve decided I wanna do active hobbies…..a girl at my work place goes to a street dance class on a Wednesday. Truth be told, I’ve always wanted to do street dancing, but cos I’m such a scaredy cat, I’ve never joined a class cos I’ve never wanted to be the new girl in the class who everyone watches as she dances. But I’m a grown ass female now, and I’m thinking I need to get it done! So I think that’s what I’m gonna do. There’s also a kick-boxing class that my friend’s uncle runs, that I’m also considering partaking. It’s some hard ish though…I heard they do push ups AND sit ups! I can feel the pain in my muscles just thinking about it! I’m so unfit though-like the other day I skipped with a rope for literally 2 seconds and the next day I could hardly move cos every muscles seized up! I was in agony for days! And finally, I want to learn to swim properly….I can actually swim BUT only under water, and you KNOW I ain’t tryna swim underwater with a fresh perm! What am I-nuts???? Nope-not me! So I wanna get some lessons and learn how to float and shit, cos I can’t do that!!!! Then I’ll be burning 900 calories every hour that I swim (or so I’ve been told) and a new leisure centre just reopened by my house, so that’s my incentive!

Erm….I don’t think there’s anything else really…I’m just sitting here and so I thought I’d reach out to my fellow bloggers real quick! I’ll have my phone line up and running on Tuesday, so I’ll be a fully fledged Blogger once again from thereon in. Go Me!!!

Hope you all have a good weekend! Mines will hopefully be spent with soldier….but y’all already knew that!! ;)

Oh yeah-WOOOOO HOOOO IT'S FRRRRIIIIIIIIDAAAAAAAAYYYYYY!!!

Nothing To Report

I haven’t blogged for so long-and would you believe I have nothing….absolutely nothing to report…..It makes you wonder what my life is!!!

On Friday, I went back to Fridge bar and it was crap…actually maybe crap is too strong of a word-but it wasn’t anywhere as great as it was last week!! So I was unimpressed!

I spoke to the telephone company yesterday, and it seems that they can reconnect the line that’s in my house in the next few days-I have to pay a £50 deposit, but that’s it…and I get that back too! It’s much better than the £120 reconnection charge I was previously quoted….so by next week I’ll have a phone line….and then I’ll get Sky TV and broadband so I’ll have my own internet connection and more than 5 dry tv channels!! Woooo hooo! And the greatest part is that all that’s gonna cost me is £17 a month!! This means I’ll be able to blog surf again….which I haven’t done for sooooo long! There’s blogs I haven’t visited for way too long!!

I have nothing else…oh-this morning, on the way to work, a bird decided to crap on my car….please believe I was less than impressed!!! And it’s ridiculously cold outside-not feeling that! Winter is OFFICIALLY here!!!

So with that depressing realisation….I really have nothing…no news to report…no anything….so that’s me for now……

Oh-Soldier’s going to Jamaica on Monday….for 3 WEEKS……3 WEEKS I TELL YA!! I’m sad….I’m gonna miss him……

But seriously though….I now have nothing more….

A Tag and Things

Yesterday Soldier cooked for me! He cooked chicken and rice…and it was SOOOO good!! After dinner we had a wrestling match (don’t ask) I lost (pissed!) I had to surrender man! But I’m planning my revenge! Lol!!

Thanks for the comments on the last post! I am taking things real slow…I’m guarding my heart, and taking a note on everything! I know that there’s certain things I can’t control, but I have no intentions of walking around with my eyes closed!! One thing I’ve noticed about me since being with Soldier is I’m not afraid to say what I’m feeling…if there’s something that doesn’t sit right with me for whatever reason, I let him know! Unlike with Mr Man where I felt like I couldn’t really say what I wanted, this is not the case here! I hope that things go right, but you know what, if it doesn’t at least I’ll be able to learn from it you know? Ultimately, things are going at snail’s pace…..just taking each day as it comes!!

I actually don’t have anything today…so I figured I might as well deal with the tag Ms Diva dished out to me!! So here goes……

Accent – Typically Souf London….and it’s nothing like the English accents you hear on TV! I don’t sound anything like the Queen!! I actually hate my accent….but a lot of people (particularly Jamaican’s it seems) love it! *shrugs* Go figure!
I don't drink – BEER….AKA Piss in a bottle-enough said methinks! I actually don't like alcohol much full stop!
Chore I hate – Cleaning the bathroom…especially the toilet! Makes me gag!
Pets – I’ve never actually had my own pet….but me and dogs are good friends…..however, I’m not sure about having one in my gaff…though Soldier is trying hard to have me keep his Golden Retriever (no small ting) for 3 weeks whilst he goes on holiday…right…not happening!!
Essential Electronics – Has to the mobile phone!! What is life without it??
Perfume –I’ve discovered the heavenly scent that is Amour Amour….dunno who it’s by….but my mum got it the other day…the smallest bottle for £20….but it smells toooo good! Can’t see myself parting with that kinda cash for a bottle that small though!
Gold or silver – Gold daily, but when I’m accessorizing..when I’m looking more like a girl it’s usually silver
Job Title – Account Administrator (no where near as fancy as the title!)
Most Admired Trait – My stubbornness….believe it’s a blessing….but also a curse!
Kids – I love kids...especially when I can give em back! Lol!! I do want kids…someday though…Phobia – No phobias as such….but I have a string of things I hate……
Religion –Christianity
Siblings –4 sisters & 2 brothers!! I also have a half sister, which I actually don’t claim as family….but for the purpose of this, she gets a mention….but that’s it!
Time I wake up – as late as possible! Work days no later than 7 (and that’s pushing it)
Unusual talent/skill –It’s not unusual…but I’m a mobile phone genius (yeah I said it) I can conquer the runnings of a mobile in a day! (cos I’m heavy like that! Lol)
Vegetable I refuse to eat – Brussel Sprouts….
Worst habit – Have quite a few….but I’ll say losing interest in things way too quickly
My favorite meal – Spaghetti Bolognese, and anything with CHICKEN!! Yum!

Guess Who's Back?? (Forreal this time!!!)

So last night I went raving...me and my friend went to a club in Brixton....it was TOOOOOOO heavy! My goodness! I danced to every tune! Like right now I can't believe it was so good. The DJ killed it! Was playing album tunes.....you know the ones that you only know if you have the artist's album???? Those were the ones!!

Soldier and his boy (who loves off my friend) were meant to come, but didn't in the end, cos they don't like Brixton-so they got left! I was on FYAH last night-to be honest I don't even know why, but I had pure man's attention! I'm not even tryna hype it to be something it's not...but honestly there were just men all over tryna dance with me! I danced with a few (lol-check me though!!) I was told I had bare energy, that I had sexy moves (erm...right!)....The whole time though I did wish Soldier was there....but damn it if I was letting that stop my night!!!! And today I'm losing my voice....but it was really worth it!!

Soldier's been ON MY CASE something rotten about my smoking! It's getting on my nerves! Now before you all start agreeing with him, please note that that day I met him was the last day that I had a cigarette. Everything was going well, until his baby mama decided to call me and ask me what I'm doing with her husband! So you know I went straight to the shop to buy some smokes!! That was about 2 weeks ago...and was one of the worst weekends of my life...oh yeah-he's has a daughter....whom I didn't know about until 2 weeks ago.....So anyways we worked it all out, and we're cool now....however I haven't been dealing with the baby mama thing very well....on Weds he showed up at my house with his kid....I was less than impressed-purely cos he didn't tell me she was coming, and I didn't have the chance to prepare myself or anything. He got upset cos I wasn't all over her...and I told him that it was cos I was unprepared! She's a gorgeous little girl, and she looks just like him....anyways, whilst he's at my house, the baby's mum calls....I hear her tell him that she loves him-I'm pissed as sin! We have a talk....and though I know that he can't control what she says to him, he needs to shut it down when she does!!! He's acting like I'm saying he shouldn't be there for his daughter-but that's NOT what I'm saying! I would never tell him to do that-I've experienced 1st hand what it's like to deal with a shit ass father-and I wouldn't wish that on my worse enemy-so why would I tell him to be that kinda person? He's asking me what I want him to do-but to be honest I have no clue. I've told him that I want him in my life, and I know that means his daughter will be a part of that too-and I can deal with that. The baby mama doesn't know about us...if she knows then she'll go on dumb with him seeing his baby girl-I don't want that-but at the same time her not knowing may be giving her the impression that she and he can get back together. I just don't want the drama man!!

He says he wants a future with me-and I want the same with him-I just wanna know-what happened to the honeymoon period! It lasted all of 2 weeks before drama started-but we're cool...we're getting on...I do feel pangs of jealousy (shit did I just say that?) when she calls him to talk of the baby and stuff-but I guess that's my hang up right..?

But anyways-with all that aside we're getting on well...and working towards a relationship....I'm happy.... :) I just spoke to him and he told me that my black earrings that I have on look nice...I mean who knew he noticed???? Aww bless him!!

So that's what's really happened over the past few weeks......but don't worry...I'm doing good, and things are good!!!! I've MISSED you ALL!!!!!!

Woooo Hooooo!

So I've been in my flat for 4 days now and I love it! I love it to bits and pieces! Living alone is exactly how I thought it would be-absolute bliss!! Though I say alone, I haven't really had much alone time....with visits from Soldier and the girls, it's been constant rotation, but I'm loving it....

Adding to the bliss-I've been off work since Wednesday-my manager tried to have me up about taking the time off-but it's my holiday days, so I'm taking them!!! So I've just been chillng....haven't cooked yet either...Monday my mum brought my dinner round, and on Tuesday and Wednesday my sis, who lives all of 5 mins away now, brought my dinner. Today-as in right now I'm back at mum's...I've had dinner-I'm just waiting for Soldier to come pick me up to take me home. Haven't driven my Smartie all day! Given it a well deserved rest!

That's about it really....just thought I'd take the opportunity to check in with you guys....I'm still alive....dealing with the ish that life's chucking at me, but I'm handling...loving my new found 'independence' (though I haven't cooked yet)...but the peace and quiet is the greatest! The fam came to visit earlier today, and I couldn't wait to get rid of em! I love em to bits....but I can finally say-that's enough now! Bye!! LOL!!!

Craziness done....I'm hoping to be back in a few.....trying to get the net in my house, but the phone company are tryna say I need to pay £120 to get the line up and running...WTF???? I'll be back.....

Just Passing....

My fellow bloggers-I’ve been away for far too long….but I’m coming back-slowly but surely! I’m in the process of moving into my new flat-I’m moving in a few hours to be precise….and at this new gaff there’s no internet-but it’ll be coming soon….in the meantime I plan on getting on here at every available opportunity!!

There’s not much to report in terms of the wonders of my world-Soldier’s still there..we’re getting on well…hit a major wall a few weeks ago..let’s just say he has a baby mama who’s a few sandwiches short of a pic-a-nic! But we’re on track, and things are going well….that and moving-there’s nothing else! My life is dry!!!

Gotta go-but I’ll see you guys shortly……don't miss me too much! :)

Soldier

So I guess it’s really time for me to tell you guys about that dude that’s keeping me away from the blog fam….(oh how I miss you all!)

Well since the evening he turned up at my house last Thursday, we’ve spent the hours of the evening/early morning together. He’s just so cool…we sit and talk for hours…and it’s mad weird, cos I didn’t think I could be that talkative…He’s really funny, and he makes me laugh…and he’s obsessed with my Smart car.

He’s a bit taller than me, medium build (whatever that really means…), he’s got beautiful brown eyes and the most gorgeous smile I’ve ever seen…when he smiles, I swear I get butterflies-each and every time! My whole family seem to love him….he met my sister the other day, and she thinks he’s cool. Apparently we (my whole fam) have been invited to some one’s party (haven’t a clue who) and they (my fam) want him to come along….it’s nuts-he’s already in there with the fam **raised eyebrow** for the moment though, it’s cool…we get on really well, and he makes me smile, so it can’t be bad can it?

Our 1st date was on Saturday evening. We went to a bar around the way, and we just talked the night away! Dropped him back to his house at about midnight, and then headed home. Then about 10 minutes after I get in, he calls me and he’s like – are you going to bed? I say no….we then meet up shortly after, he gives me a cute little flower that he picked off the bush…(yeah I know….but it was soooo cute!) and we drive around, talking….He held my hand the entire time :) I didn’t get back into my house until after 3am on Sunday morning!

He comes by my house to see me spontaneously which I love….I’m loving this happy feeling! :)He was meant to go back to the Army base on Sunday, but he called them, and told them that he was sick, so he’s in London for a few more days…not sure when he’s going back…but I know I’m gonna miss him when he does…

For right now though, we’re just taking each day as it comes….not trying to rush into anything….just taking it reeeeallll slow! Things are going really well, but I do fear it’s a little too perfect….but you know what-whatever happens, happens….I’m just enjoying his company, his conversation and the way he makes me feel….

So....that's Soldier......any questions??

** I know I haven't been round to visit you guys much lately...but I'll be round really soon....so have the tea and biscuits ready!! **